Power of a Simple Ask

Nov 2 , 2024
By Carolyn Kissane

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I found myself in a desperate situation last week, completely out of water at home. With a growing thirst that could not be quenched, I turned to my neighbours for help. As I approached a shopkeeper outside our compound, a woman living in the same block overheard and generously offered to assist me. The relief was immense.

The persistent water shortage left many of the condominium residents in my residence blind. Not everyone had filled their barrels and tankers, and those who had quickly ran out. Previously, we relied on a nearby source and transported water using a Bajaj (three-wheeler rickshaw). But with that option no longer available, life had become increasingly difficult for those of us living on the outskirts of the city. Our only recourse was to call delivery services, but then we learned that water would arrive the following day.

Living in an area where there is a reliable water supply is a luxury I once took for granted. Living in condominiums has taught me the real value of water; now, I find myself compelled to voice my concerns whenever I see it wasted.  Life’s demands are not easy from essentials like getting water to opportunities that could reshape our lives. But this incident made me realise that I overlooked resources within reach. Sometimes, a simple ask can reveal hidden assets and spark connections that enrich our journey.

It is easy to miss the support systems around us.

In my attempt, I approached familiar and unfamiliar faces alike. To my surprise, many offered what little they had, with overwhelming generosity. I was left humbled, understanding the value of community support in times of need.

Navigating daily aspirations, we tend to overlook available support systems. A willingness to ask for help can unveil resources and connections that not only aid our pursuits but enrich our experiences along the way.

The experience reinforced the power of community, the kindness usually found in unlikely places, and the importance of not hesitating to seek help. I now realise that whether in search of knowledge, motivation, or emotional support, asking for help can lead to profound personal growth and new insights, connecting us with perspectives that enrich our lives in unexpected ways.

Asking for help reflects our interconnectedness, unmasking the vulnerabilities we all face and the natural inclination to assist one another.

In a world that usually celebrates self-sufficiency, we may forget that strength lies not just in independence but also in the relationships that sustain us. I tapped into a network of compassion that exists quietly in our neighbourhoods, waiting to be activated by the simplest of gestures. The support I found was a reminder that in our shared struggles, there is a strength that builds when we lean on each other.

This experience left me with a renewed commitment to reciprocate. The generosity extended to me reminded me that small acts can ripple out, inspiring others to give, share, and uplift those around them. I am more aware now of the importance of building and maintaining these connections, whether they are for times of need or simply for encouraging a greater sense of community.

It is these connections that bring depth to our lives, adding richness to both our daily routines and the challenges we face. I am left with a lasting reminder: sometimes, by reaching out to others, we gain far more than we anticipated—a connection, a lesson, and, most importantly, a reminder of the kindness that we can both give and receive.

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PUBLISHED ON Nov 02,2024 [ VOL 25 , NO 1279]

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