Sandy Wade: The Soldier-Diplomat Who Mastered Strategy, Humanity Dies at 66

Each holiday season, without fail, Robert Nicholas Harry Alexander de Vins Wade — known affectionately as Sandy — would send messages of goodwill to colleagues and friends. This simple gesture embodied his warm, empathetic nature and never went unnoticed by those who knew him over the years.

Arriving in Addis Abeba as a diplomat, Sandy left an indelible mark on those he encountered, not only in his official capacity but as a compassionate individual. His driver of eight years, Daniel Seyoum, recalled journeys through the city where Sandy could not pass a street beggar without emptying his wallet. His kindness extended further. He paid rent and provided stipends to formerly homeless youths, enabling them to access education and rebuild their lives.

A defining moment for Daniel was when Sandy rushed to his aid in the middle of the night — still in his pyjamas — after learning that Daniel's child had been hospitalised.

"He was a people person," Daniel said, summing up the man who had become more than an employer.

Sandy's professional life was as formidable as his compassion. A career soldier, diplomat, and public servant, he slept little, four hours a night, devoting his time to work and service. With postgraduate degrees in Defence Administration from Cranfield University and Building Conservation from Birmingham University, his connection to Ethiopia deepened during his tenure as Defence Attache at the British Embassy from 2007 to 2013. It led to his appointment as Military Advisor to the European Union (EU) Delegation to the African Union (AU).

Many who worked with him recalled his impact on Ethiopia's military relationship as outstanding. Figures such as Molla Hailemariam (Gen.), who had served as commander of the Air Force; Gebremichael Beyene, Yodit Abraham (MD-Col.), and Birhanu Lemma attested to the initiatives he led. His projects, including defence education programmes and resource-sharing platforms, played a crucial role in human resource development within the army. His efforts helped modernise defence strategies and cultivated closer ties between Ethiopia and its international partners.

He had a deep love for animals. Upon returning home to the UK, he searched tirelessly to ensure his beloved tortoise and horses were placed in an animal sanctuary where they would be well cared for.

His connection with Ethiopia endured, and he was always the first to welcome former colleagues when they visited. His love for the culture was equally apparent; he never refused a cup of coffee, and his culinary skills were well-known among his friends.

Abdillahi Duale, a diplomat from Somaliland, fondly remembered gatherings at Sandy's home, where he would prepare meals and share stories late into the night. Sandy's respect extended to even the most remote invitations. He frequently attended gatherings far outside the city, showing his genuine interest in people from all walks of life.

However, his career stretched across continents and fields.