Rethink Kindergarten Graduation!

Jul 20 , 2024
By Kidist Yidnekachew

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While running errands, I stumbled upon a sight that made me pause. It was a neighbourhood gathering buzzing with excitement. Curious about the occasion, I tried to recall if it was a holiday or a religious festival. But a photo of a beaming six-year-old in a miniature cap and gown amidst the celebration struck a chord. This was a kindergarten graduation!

The immense pride parents hold for their children's achievements was evident. While I understand this sentiment, lavish bashes are not my cup of tea. Give me intimate gatherings focusing on the child, not adult indulgences. Loud music, excessive food, and guest lists stretching further than the eye can see – no thanks!

My ideal celebration would be a wonderland for the kids, activities that spark joy and connection, not a showcase for grown-up extravagance. It is about the child's accomplishment, not another excuse to indulge.

Here is what truly baffled me: some who throw these elaborate parties readily lament financial struggles due to inflation. A comfortable home, a car, covered expenses, and savings paint a different picture. This stark contrast between perceived struggles and reality is hard to reconcile. It is a world away from those lacking necessities like shelter, food, and clean clothes. Empathy for children whose families cannot afford grand celebrations is crucial. Kids naturally want experiences similar to their peers, and financial constraints can be heartbreaking.

Focusing on grand celebrations rather than accomplishments begins in the schools.

My husband's nephew's recent kindergarten graduation showcased a heartwarming school performance for parents. But throughout his year, not a single English homework sheet came home as teaching it early as a second language was banned. To compensate, the ceremony featured the children proudly presenting stories in broken English.

I observed two things: the school's missed opportunity and the misplaced emphasis. Rehearsed aspirations to be pilots, doctors, or engineers were cute, but they overshadowed the actual knowledge gained. The grand ceremony seemed more important than the educational foundation laid during those crucial preschool years.

Kindergarten graduation can be a powerful tool. The joyous atmosphere, filled with cheers and applause, can build positive associations with the school. Witnessing older students graduate ignites a spark of ambition in little minds, making them eager for their academic milestones. This early introduction to graduation breeds a sense of purpose, a nudge towards perseverance through future challenges.

The excitement surrounding kindergarten graduation is due. For young minds, it signifies a giant leap towards independence. They have transitioned from an unstructured environment to a world of schedules, rules, and expectations. Graduating kindergarten celebrates their successful adaptation – mastering letters and numbers, and honing social skills. Proud parents witness the culmination of years of growth, a moment worth cherishing.

But do not forget – celebrations should not overwhelm our little ones. It is a time to enjoy with loved ones, engage in quiet activities, and prioritise their needs. Remember, their sense of self-worth is still blossoming.

Overemphasis on grand ceremonies and excessive praise can breed entitlement. This is not the end, but the beginning of their educational journey. Keep it simple, and age-appropriate. Avoid inflating egos and creating a false sense of achievement. There is a whole world of learning waiting to be explored!

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PUBLISHED ON Jul 20,2024 [ VOL 25 , NO 1264]

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